Headaches in children factsheet

Introduction

Headaches can be a common type of pain in children and teenagers. Most headaches come from the nerves, blood vessels, and muscles in the head and neck. When the muscles or blood vessels swell or tighten, they put pressure on the nerves. Pressure on the nerves can cause pain in and around the head. 

Headaches can be caused by things like:

Migraines are a separate condition from general headaches.

 Signs and symptoms

Headaches can be a symptom of another health condition. Pain is usually around the head and neck and can feel like:

  • a tight band around the head
  • squeezing
  • sharp
  • throbbing
  • a general ache.

See your local doctor if your child’s headache:

  • is getting worse
  • keeps coming back
  • wakes them from sleep
  • stops them from getting to sleep
  • causes them to miss school or other activities
  • happens early in the morning
  • causes vomiting
  • happens all day, every day
  • does not get better after taking over-the-counter pain relief like paracetamol.

Symptoms of severe headache

Go to your nearest emergency department if your child has headaches and is under five years old or is:

  • walking differently
  • falling over
  • feeling weaker
  • complaining of dizziness or numbness
  • having changes in their behaviour
  • losing their motor skills, like dropping or bumping into things.

Diagnosis

To diagnose a headache, or a condition causing a headache, your child’s doctor will: 

  • take a medical history
  • check any symptoms
  • do a physical check.

They may also: 

  • order scans to check inside the head, like a CT scan or MRI
  • test for any other health conditions that could cause a headache
  • refer your child to a specialist doctor, called a neurologist.

Treatment

Treatment of headaches will depend on:

  • what is causing them
  • how long they have been going on for
  • how painful they are.

If your child has occasional headaches, they can be managed at home by:

Making sure they are eating and drinking well

  • making sure they are resting
  • placing a cool, wet cloth on their forehead
  • using gentle massage or stretching of the head and neck muscles
  • distracting them from pain with activities like art or music.

Your child’s doctor may also recommend over-the-counter pain medicine like paracetamol or ibuprofen. 

Follow the instructions on the packet closely and see your local doctor if the headache: 

  • does not go away after two days
  • gets worse. 

Do not use aspirin for headaches in children.

 Management

Persistent headaches

Persistent headaches keep coming back or last for a long time. They can be disruptive for children and impact things like:

  • school attendance and performance
  • social activities
  • sleep
  • mood
  • appetite
  • family relationships. 

If your child has persistent headaches, track any symptoms and treatments in a diary and See your local doctor.

Medicine for headaches

Pain relief for headaches can be discussed with your child’s doctor.

Over-the-counter pain medicines like paracetamol and ibuprofen can help with persistent headaches. Depending on the cause of the headache, some children may need stronger pain relief. 

Acupuncture and headaches

Some children get relief from headaches with acupuncture. Acupuncture is a traditional Chinese medicine therapy where thin, metal needles are inserted into specific areas of the skin. 

Acupuncture should always be done by a registered healthcare provider. Talk to your child’s doctor for recommendations and referrals.

Movement and headaches

Children may avoid activities when they have headaches, such as staying home from school and sports. Regular movement and physical activity are important and improve:

  • strength
  • fitness
  • energy
  • mood
  • sleep
  • stress levels.

Movement and physical activity can also release hormones called endorphins. Endorphins can help to relieve pain and stress. 

Some children may find their headaches can get worse if they stop moving and engaging in everyday activities.

If your child has had a long break from activity due to headaches, they should:

  • start slowly and gently
  • take regular, short breaks

increase activity slowly as they start to feel better.

Stress, anxiety and headaches

Persistent headaches can be very stressful for your child and the whole family. Stress and anxiety can worsen headache pain. Using relaxation strategies daily can help reduce pain. 

These strategies can include: 

  • guided imagery
  • meditation
  • relaxing music
  • distraction
  • deep breathing. 

Speak to your child’s doctor about any recommended relaxation videos or apps.

Some children may also benefit from seeing a psychologist, who can help with:

  • managing stress and anxiety
  • developing good sleep routines
  • developing coping strategies for pain.

Psychologists can also advise parents and carers on how to support children with persistent headaches and pain.

Sleep and headaches

Getting enough sleep at night is also important for managing headaches. A good sleep routine for children includes:

  • going to bed at the same time each night
  • waking at the same time each day
  • avoiding daytime naps
  • using the bed only for sleeping
  • not using screens an hour before bed.

School and headaches

It is important that your child continues to go to school, even with persistent headaches. School can be a good distraction and provide social support. 

Talk with your child's school and teachers about strategies for managing headaches. They can help encourage rest breaks and identify any stressors that might make your child’s headache worse.

Disclaimer

This factsheet is provided for general information only. It does not constitute health advice and should not be used to diagnose or treat any health condition.

Please consult with your doctor or other health professional to make sure this information is right for you and/or your child.

The Sydney Children’s Hospitals Network does not accept responsibility for inaccuracies or omissions, the interpretation of the information, or for success or appropriateness of any treatment described in the factsheet.

© Sydney Children’s Hospitals Network 2024


This factsheet was produced with support from John Hunter Children's Hospital.