Medications used to soften the stools are called laxatives. They restore the natural rhythm by using the body’s own water. These medications will gently make your child’s bowel movements more regular and will soften the stool so it is easier to pass. They come as powder and can be added to drinks (for example, water, juice, milk etc). 

Alternatively bulking agents, lubricants or softeners can be used. We don’t recommend Senna based products (irritants or stimulants), as these will cause a reduction in bowel function in the long term.  

The Bristol stool chart is used to describe the stool consistency and to monitor progress after changes to the routines are made.

It is important to have a regular bowel emptying time to avoid any “accidents” and to stay clean. Normal sensation to warn that the bowels are about to open and it’s time to go to the toilet is damaged.

• Toilet timing is when your child sits on the toilet at the times when they are most likely to pass a stool such as after a meal (habit training).
• Sometimes rectal stimulants (medications), using digital stimulation (a finger gently in the back passage), suppositories or enemas (medications) need to be used to stimulate the anal sphincter and empty stool from the rectum.
• The best time to use these methods is about 20 minutes after a meal e.g. breakfast or dinner when the gastro-colic reflex is working.
• Enemas can safely be used daily to train the bowel to empty at a specific time. Approximately 10-15 minutes after insertion of the enema, your child should sit on the toilet.

Your child needs to sit comfortably on the toilet. 

• Their feet need to be supported on a stool so that their knees are higher than their hips.
• Their back should be straight and tummy pushed out.
• Ask them to push down and use their tummy muscles to try to pass a stool. Blowing, coughing or laughing may help.
• Try not to leave them on the toilet for more than 10 minutes as they will get bored and disinterested.

Positioning to help with the bowel program should be started as soon as it is safe for your child. The upright position allows gravity to help pass the stool out of the rectum. It also helps the person to learn to push out of the rectum.

The benefits of simple exercises such as turning in bed, lifting weight through the arms when in the wheelchair, taking deep breaths and standing can help to increase movement of stool through the bowel.

For some people, the bowels don’t empty completely. They might continue to have accidents after either a spontaneous movement or if they don’t respond well to the use of enemas. 

• These people might benefit from a bowel washout with a “Large Volume Water Enema” to have a more efficient motion and to stay clean the next day.
• Your clinic doctor and nurse will advise about this method.
• Some people need surgical intervention to enable them to have their bowels emptied. Surgeries are recommended only when all other methods have not been successful.
• Your clinic doctor and nurse will discuss these procedures with you before you make a decision.

Be prepared

Learn about the things that affect bowel movement. It can take several weeks to have a regular program, however your child may have accidents, so it is important to always be prepared.

Once a toilet timing pattern has been established, it should remain constant. 

Reminders

• Regular bowel emptying is important. Aim for the same time every day.
• Position on the toilet matters.
• Diet makes a difference. Be honest about what you eat. Some foods will give you problems.
• Drinking water and regular exercise helps make healthy bowels.
• Medication can be useful.
• Avoid unnecessary changes to medication.
• Avoid constipation/impaction and avoid over distension of the bowels.
• A good bowel program in childhood will set up good routines for adulthood.
• The nurse or doctor can help develop a good bowel routine.