“Do you get along with your mumand dad?”

“Where do you live and who lives there with you? (No assumptions made). 

“How are you doing in school?”

“Tell me about school.” OR: “What do you enjoy about school? What do you dislike? (Open-ended; harder to answer “OK.”)

"What do you eat?," "Are you happy with your weight?"

“What do you do to stay healthy?.” OR: “Do you have trouble with body confidence?.” (Open-ended; can’t answer “OK.”)

“Do you have any activities outside school?”

“What do you and your friends like to do for fun?” (Open-ended). 

“Do you use drugs?”

“What kinds of drugs have you seen around your school or at parties?” OR: “Do any of your friends use drugs or alcohol?” (Less personal; eases into a difficult discussion). 

“Have you ever had sex?”

“You told me you’ve been going out with Steve for the past 3 months. Has your relationship become sexual?” (Context makes question seem less intrusive.) OR: “Are you attracted to anyone currently?” (non-judgemental).