Sleep concerns in children

Sleep is important for your child’s growth, learning, and overall wellbeing. As they grow, their sleep patterns will change. It’s normal for this to lead to some restless nights or bedtime challenges. 

You’re not alone if your child struggles to fall asleep or stay asleep. Most sleep issues are short-term and improve with time and gentle support. 

Knowing what’s typical for your child’s age can help you decide when small changes at home might help.  

When sleep becomes a challenge

It’s normal to feel concerned if your child’s sleep becomes unsettled or changes suddenly. Most sleep disruptions are short-term and improve on their own. Sometimes they can last longer and affect your child’s mood, energy, or daily routine. 

You know your child best, and your instincts matter. If gentle changes at home don’t seem to help, or if you’re worried about how sleep is affecting them, talk to your child and family health nurse or doctor. They can offer support, rule out any underlying issues, and guide you toward the right next steps. 

Short-term sleep challenges

Short-term sleep challenges are common and usually last only a few nights. They often improve on their own once things settle down. Your child might struggle to sleep because of: 

  • changes to their bedtime routine
  • starting a new medication
  • sleeping somewhere different, like a family members house or on holiday
  • stress, excitement, or big changes in their day
  • daylight savings shifting their usual schedule 

Ongoing sleep challenges

If sleep challenges continue for longer, they can start to affect how your child feels, thinks, and behaves. Some signs to look out for include: 

  • trouble focusing or paying attention
  • poor memory or forgetting things
  • big emotions, like feeling angry or upset more often
  • changes in behaviour at home or school 

Behavioural sleep challenges

Behavioural sleep problems are the most common sleep issue in young children. They’re often linked to bedtime habits and routines, and they’re not always a sign that something is wrong. 

These might look like your child: 

  • taking a long time to fall asleep
  • waking up often during the night
  • calling out for you after bedtime
  • getting out of bed repeatedly
  • refusing to sleep in their own bedThe good news is that gentle changes to your child’s routine can make a big difference. A regular bedtime routine and consistent sleep schedule often help children settle more easily and sleep for longer. 

See Creating a healthy sleep environment for strategies to support your child with sleep patterns.  

Sleep disorders

Sleep disorders affect how well, how much, or how often your child sleeps. They can have a bigger impact on your child’s health, behaviour, and development than short-term sleep problems. 

Some common sleep disorders include: 

  • Obstructive sleep apnoea (OSA) – breathing stops and starts during sleep because the airway is blocked
  • Insomnia – ongoing trouble falling asleep or staying asleep
  • Narcolepsy – feeling very tired during the day and having sudden urges to sleep
  • Restless leg syndrome – feeling the need to move because of uncomfortable sensations, which disrupt sleep
  • Night terrors – waking suddenly in distress without remembering a dream
  • Sleepwalking – walking or doing other activities while still asleep. If you’re worried your child might have a sleep disorder, speak with your doctor or child and family health nurse. 

What to look out for in your child’s sleep

Talk to your doctor if you notice any of the following: 

  • loud snoring or noisy breathing while your child sleeps
  • sweating often during sleep
  • lots of restlessness or movement overnight
  • headaches when they wake up
  • feeling very tired during the day
  • bedwetting after the age of eight, or after at least six weeks of dry nights
  • changes in mood or behaviour. 

 These signs don’t always mean something serious is wrong, but they can be helpful clues that your child may need extra support with their sleep.