Personal boundaries
As your child grows up and has more social interactions outside the home, it is important to discuss their own personal boundaries.
Interacting with more people, relationships can develop or become more complex. Your child should know their rights and responsibilities.
Boundaries help your child understand and respect:
- who they are
- people around them.
Your child is the boss of their own body. They have the right to say no to touch or language they don’t like.
It is important for children to understand that for every right they have regarding their own personal boundaries, they have a responsibility to respect other people’s rights to the same thing. Every person has the responsibility to ask permission if they are likely to impede on someone else’s personal boundaries.
Teachable personal boundaries scenarios
- saying no to hitting, pushing or playing rough
- speaking up if they are being bullied or see it happening
- choosing who can touch or hug them
- understanding different cultural beliefs
- learning to talk about sexual boundaries when they are age appropriate.